Lasting Potential or Just a Learning Experience – Choices

Here we have one of the frequently asked questions when it comes to relationships, and there is a very good reason for it. When we fall in love with someone, we invest ourselves in the relationship for better or worse. If problems arise, we start questioning if we wish to continue to invest more or let it go. Here is where astrology can be very helpful by providing information to help us make our choice based on good information. As a Libra Sun/Moon person, I am very particular about good information needed to make informed decisions . . . a Libra specialty.The young woman is an Aquarius Sun and Taurus Moon and the man in her life is a Cancer Sun, Taurus Moon. Aquarius and Taurus are both Fixed signs and square each other. Fixed Air and Fixed Earth can develop real problems finding talking points due to a disinclination to move from their chosen position. Her Sun is square his Moon and his Cancer Sun is sextile her Taurus Moon. The latter is a helpful aspect and does offer possibilities for harmony.

The shared Moon in Taurus is a very strong bond because they do understand and appreciate each other on an intuitive emotional level. Even more important is the shared sense of what makes them comfortable and at ease, especially in the home. This is a great aspect for sharing a living space. One caveat here is her Moon is conjunct Chiron in Taurus and square her Sun/Mercury in Aquarius. So their relationship may be more painful in subtle ways than most where the Moons are conjunct because being together will trigger her areas of wounding.

Mercury is her chart is in Aquarius and his is in Leo so there is potential for drama and heated discussions that may or may not be resolved. Since we have Fire and Air facing off I predict a certain amount of hot air . . .

The chemistry is not bad with his Mars in Scorpio trine her Venus in Pisces and her Mars in Virgo semi-sextile his Venus in Leo. If the rest of their relationship can be worked through then this area will enhance it overall.

Saturn does play a role between these two with an important Sun/Saturn intra-aspect. His Saturn is square her Sun and her Saturn is sextile his Sun. This type of exchange actually seems to work better if the two make it legal by signing legal documents stating they are a couple in the eyes of the Law and Society. Saturn is very fond of that sort of thing . . . This intra-aspect can work like this: as the Saturn person in the Sun/Saturn square, he can come across as controlling and cold to mask feelings of insecurity; and her Saturn sextile his Sun will feel more supportive to him.

As these two are both in their twenties and have not yet gone through their first Saturn Return, they have time to consider their options and put some time into figuring out where they are as individuals before investing more in this relationship. He has a Sun/Pluto square natally and that adds to his control issues . . .

The Seven of Cups is about making wise choices. This is from the Terra Tarot deck: http://www.rajunasrefuge.com/terratarot.html

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